Srimad Bhagavatam mentions this incident, and won't point out rape whatsoever. Instead it is enjoyment and Engage in among them. I do Observe Shri Ayappa would be the son of Shri Shiva and Shri Mohini, and so she is likely his spiritual spouse And that's why he caught her hair https://www.youtube.com/@Mahavidyabaglamukhi